There is more to learn from within than from without..!!! …………………………………. Jan 29, 2011 ; Saturday

There is more to learn from within than from without..!!! …………………………………. Jan 29, 2011 ; Saturday Human behaviour is much more mysterious than what we normally think. One day a colleague of mine with whom I had some problems ,,, difficulties … differences, approached and enquired about a project that was in common between us …and passingly (I really don't know whether such a word exists in English) mentioned that the person wanted to talk to me about some other personal issues as well.  We are so much conditioned about our response behaviour … that we really cannot understand the issues in their own right. Next day  when we happened to meet in the canteen …the person looked bit tensed…and under stress… I said, "I am sorry …I was busy so could not make it to spare time the other day."  I felt sorry that the person had nothing to discuss about the official work as such …but wanted my advice on some personal issues. I realized we should not be judgmental about ideas and people unnecessarily. At the outset the person / friend always looks so confident …adamant and proud …. but when I learn more about the person …I realize how humble….human….weak…..the person is from outside. Let us not be judgmental……wait and see….give little more time for things to clear the fog around.  Let the ground be cleared before we understand…  !!!!!!!!!! There is more to learn from within than from without..!!! …………………………………. Jan 29, 2011 ; Saturday LbnRaj   Librarianship is a noble profession                                                                                                                 http://indialibrarian-intl.blogspot.com/ lotus5673@yahoo.co.in 1816gbgv